DO YOU HAVE HATERS...LET THEM HATE...ITS THEIR JOB

[GLORIA NEWSOME]

A hater is someone who gets joy from witnessing your failure. Said differently, a hater does not enjoy seeing you have success. Because haters get their joy from seeing you fail, playing on their terms is a no-win situation for you. Your haters will only be happy if you are failing, pleasing them is obviously self-destructive. This is not nearly as self-destructive, however, as keeping haters on your "home team" and succeeding despite them. In this case, your haters will be forced to step up their hate game until they end your season for good. A hater is a threat to any and every positive move you make toward success because your success threatens his or her joy.

 

When God gives you a favor, you can tell your haters, 'Don't look at me. Look at who is in charge of me.' In order to deal with haters one must understand a "Hater". One must understand why they say and do the hating things they do.  Having haters is one way of knowing your constantly doing something right. It's always good to have your name in someone else's mouth, keeps YOU Popular. (LOL) Hating on a certain name only gives them fame.

 

Often times it is not always easy to spot "hater-ation. Hate sometimes appears in your life as a monkey wrench in your engine thrown by lovers, friends and family members. Naively, many people feel that they can simply avoid or ignore those who mean them harm. In their time of indecision, these people find their plan for haters is no plan at all, which often leaves them wide open to their haters' attacks. Haters, if you let them, will make themselves at home in your mind, keeping you stuck in self-doubt and far from success. And yet, you must make your haters a part of your success plan.

 

The job of the haters is to hate!  Let them. A hater is someone who is jealous and envious and spends all their time trying to make you look small so they can look tall. As you should always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them more.  Treat them with kindness for they can not help themselves. Don't hate them because YOU were not who they thought YOU were or who they wanted YOU to be. From start to finish they never knew the real YOU.

 

The popular, the highly blessed, the person who is taking care of their business living life on their own term is the one whom is Hated by many and Confronted by none. When you make your mark, you will always attract some haters…That’s why you have to be careful with whom you share your blessings and your dreams, because some folk can’t handle seeing you blessed…It’s dangerous to be like somebody else… If God wanted you to be like somebody else, He would have given you what He gave them!

 

Haters only hate the things that they can't get and the people they can't be. People in your life over time may come and go, but enemies accumulate and haters can't hurt you unless you give them the power to let them. So many ASSUME... but so little know what it took to get you to the place you are personally or professionally. In order to reach your highest potential, you have to get and stay motivated every day. You will be so enamored with the worth of your mission that you will be able to push forward with ease. Some days, however, your motivation will wane, your step will drag, and your courage will weaken. These are the days in which you may need to use every trick in your book to stay motivated. These are the days in which haters are the most useful to you. Your haters are waiting for you to quit, waiting for you to admit that they were right all along about you. Will you let them have the satisfaction? Your haters are on standby waiting to stand over you after you've fallen from the mountain up which they were too frightened or too lazy to climb.

 

Before you become a Hater or show your hater ways: Read this section....

 

Definition of a Hater: One who hates. · (slang, pejorative) One who expresses unfounded or inappropriate hatred or dislike, particularly if motivated by envy. person who hates others. Synonyms: cynic , doubter, egoist, egotist, hater , isolate , loner , misanthropist, recluse , skeptic.

 

Stop. Breathe. This step alone can stop a hateful situation in its tracks. You are probably just tired, upset, or are having a rough day. Breathe and think before you speak!

Don't spread hate by listening to or repeating it.

 

Never argue, confront, or struggle with haters. When you engage the hater, you give them the power to control and manipulate you.

 

Be genuine for your face speaks louder than any words that come out of it, and the truth will be known!

Invite people into your life who bring you up and don't drag you down.

 

Never let haters throw you off your game. Nothing pleases a hater more than to see you fail. Focus intently on achieving your goals and being the best you that you can be. Stay positive and look for the good in every situation. Think good thoughts! Expect good.

 

Kill haters with kindness. No matter what the hater does or says remember and practice The Golden Rule, treat them the way you want to be treated, despite how they treat you. Dont waste your time or stoop to the level of a hater...it isn't worth it and you are so much better than that....Know that about yourself and respect it.

 

Realize your own awesomeness! We all have it, you just have to realize that!

 

You will attract into your life the people, ideas, and circumstances that harmonize with your dominant thoughts. As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another. Success is the greatest revenge. There will always be haters, it’s how YOU deal with haters that determines your walk on the living life abundantly path. Make all your haters your motivators. Reach high, for stars lie hidden in your soul. Dream deep, for every dream precedes the goal. Weakness of attitude becomes weakness of character and the recognition of all haters is the greatest motivator! No one wants to think about haters. We would all rather ignore them and go about our business. However, if you love your greatness, you will make sure that nothing ever stands in your path. Don't get caught being the carpenter without a hammer in his box. Though you should never, ever have haters as a playbook-carrying member of your squad, but be sure to use them to keep your mind right for success. Put all that hate to good use!

 

In the words of Katt Williams: "

"So what she/he keeps talking about you and hating on you. What do you think a hater's job is...to hate. If you have someone hating on you right now you better think of how to get five more people hating by Christmas. You need haters to make you Stronger..without haters most people wouldn't try to become better. If there are any haters around who don’t have anybody to hate on, then feel free to hate on me."

 

P.S.: I LOVE YOU HATERS!!! You give me Inspiration and Energy! Thank You and you have a wonderful loving blessful day! Please HATERS I need you all to find truth, healing, and celebrate life, while gaining conscious and social awareness, spiritual growth, and self love!